I empathize with the pain, worry, and anxiety you may feel when communicating your needs to someone you care about. It might feel like an impossible challenge, but remember: “Each time we face a fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” ~Anonymous About Raeeka. Confront him: If the gossiper is causing a damage to your reputation and if you don’t expect him to stop soon then call him when are calm. Tell him that you are aware of his doings and that only those who are scared to face one another directly gossip. Most people will apologize and remember your call the next time they decide to gossip about you.

If you still want to be friends with this person and the feeling is mutual then you should probably let him know how hurtful his words were and ask if he meant them. Question: A good friend of mine who became a romantic interest while long distance started experiencing home troubles when I returned home.