Consider a synastry where your partner’s weak Saturn is in your 1st House. If your partner is a cheerful, lively, carefree man, then in these states you will perceive him partly detached. But in rare moments of despondency, depression, severe failures and diseases, and especially when he suddenly decides to finally become a serious motivated. my venus is at perfect conjunction with his mars, mercury, and south node. and 5 degs off from his sun in the 10th house. his venus is conjunct my south node in the 8th house. He pursued me like no other. He is RIDICULOUSLY romantic. In fact, when we first met, the first words out of his mouth were, “hello, I’m your future husband.”.

We can see how some of these words are not the ones we usually hope to associate with our relationships, but the truth is that 12 th house relationships can be the type that your soul is longing for and can hold the keys to your growth in the most important ways. It’s also true that on the more negative spectrum of experience, these relationships can be rife with projection,.